18 things to be happy
February 18, 2006"The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved."
Pursue Achievable Goals
Keep Genuine Smiles
Share with Others
Help Thy Neighbors
Maintain A Youthful Spirit
Get Along with the Rich, the Poor, the Beautiful, &
Keep Cool Under Pressure
Lighten the Atmosphere with Humor
Forgive the Annoyance of Others
Have a Few Pals
Cooperate and Reap Greater Rewards
Treasure Every Moment with Your Loved Ones
Have High Confidence in Yourself
Respect the Disadvantaged
Indulge Yourself Occasionally
Surf the Net at Leisure
Take Calculated Risks
Understand "Money Isn’t Everything"
STress Free
Everybody experiences stress.Like me who is working environment that main ingredients is patient and understanding to any given situation. A Too much stress can damage your physical, emotional, and mental health. Since it is not always possible to prevent stress, we all need to learn how to reduce it.
This is some helpful tips for everyone who are stress:
1. PREVENT IT. Every time you let anger or frustration take control, it drains away good energy and sidetracks you from more important things. Obviously, you can’t always control what goes on around you, but you can control how you respond. Try a little more patience next time you get caught in traffic and you’ll avoid unnecessary stress.
2. SET GOALS. If you set goals, you can take better control of your life. Think where you’d like to be in 1 year or 5 years. Be realistic by starting with small, daily goals, then build up from there and be prepared to adjust them as changes occur in your life.
3. ESTABLISH PRIORITIES. Do you often feel rushed because "there’s no time"? Why not regulate the pace of your life? Plan ahead. Make a list of tasks in order of priority. Concentrate on what’s really important to you and drop those things that only waste your energy.
4. TAKE TIME OUT. Spend a few minutes alone each day to break the routine. This helps ease stress and gives you a better perspective of what’s around you. Set aside time during the week for hobbies or exercise.
5. HAVE FAITH. Peace of mind comes to those who trust in God’s power to lessen life’s burdens through prayer.
6. THINK POSITIVELY. Having a positive attitude will help you assert yourself and feel more in control. You waste energy if you constantly criticize yourself or set unrealistic goals. Negative thoughts generally produce negative results. Instead of saying, "I can’t," practice saying, "I can." You’ll be surprised how much more you can accomplish.
7. HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR. Laughter can be one of the best medicines for stress. Being able to laugh at yourself and the world can break tension and give you some relief from stress.
8. COMMUNICATE. Suffering in silence only increases the stress you build up inside. Talk over your feelings and concerns with your family, a friend, counselor, or health professional. "Thinking out loud" like this not only relieves stress, but may also shed new light on your problems. Learn to listen and consider suggestions with an open mind.
9. MAKE DECISIONS. Most people have no idea how much stress they create for themselves by resisting change. They wait, hoping a situation will go back to the way it was. When it’s time to change old habits and move forward, make your own change for the better.
10. GET SUPPORT. Do you sometimes find problems too personal to discuss? Or feel they may be too much of a burden on others? Remember, you’re not alone. Other people with similar problems understand what you’re going through without the need for lengthy explanations. They share your concerns and they want to learn how to cope with stress, too.
So sick
February 17, 2006Due to last song syndrome, keep hearing this song all over again but i kinda like this one,
song for those who are broken-hearted this will be your song.
by Ne-yo
Gotta change my answering machine
Now that I’m alone
Cuz right now it says that we
Can’t come to the phone
And I know it makes no sense
Cuz you walked out the door
But it’s the only way I hear your voice anymore
(it’s ridiculous)
It’s been months
And for some reason I just
(can’t get over us)
And I’m stronger then this
(enough is enough)
No more walkin round
With my head down
I’m so over being blue
Cryin over you
And I’m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing you were still here
Said I’m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can’t I turn off the radio?
Gotta fix that calender I have
That’s marked July 15th
Because since there’s no more you
There’s no more anniversary
I’m so fed up with my thoughts of you
And your memory
And how every song reminds me
Of what used to be
That’s the reason I’m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing you were still here
Said I’m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can’t I turn off the radio?
(
Leave me alone
(Stupid love songs)
Dont make me think about her smile
Or having my first child
Let it go
Turning off the radio
Cuz I’m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing she was still here
Said I’m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can’t I turn off the radio?
(why can’t I turn off the radio?)
Said I’m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing she was still here
Said I’m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can’t I turn off the radio?
(why can’t I turn off the radio?)
UGly
February 16, 2006Everytime we heard the word beautiful first thing will come out in our mind is the literal meaning of physically attractive , we are overshadow the true meaning of what beautiful is, if you will asked at least 5 people what are there looking for someone first on there list is physical spark and sometimes we forgot to look to the inside beauty, the attitude and personality of a person. Physical attraction is a big deal, whether people like to admit it or not, I even read once in an article in the reader digest that Men are visual and they’re looking for the hottest woman they think they can get, Most men believe they should be with the Maxim cover girl on the other hand woman look for someone like the hunky Hugo Boss guy or even Brad Pitt. It’s really funny that it’s easy for all of us to see the beauty but in reality we always take for granted the true beauty which is inside and only few of us realize that…….(inspired by this song of sugababe)
They said I was strange
I noticed that my eyes and hair weren’t the same
I asked my parents if I was OK
They said you’re more beautiful
And that’s the way they show they wish
They had your smile
So my confidence was up for a while
I got real comfortable with my own style
I knew that they were only jealous cos
People are all the same
And we only get judged by what we do
My personality reflects me
And if I’m ugly then
So are you
So are you
There was a time when I felt like I cared
That I was shorter than everyone there
People made me feel like life was unfair
And I did things that made me ashamed
Cos I didn’t know my body would change
I grew taller than them in more ways
But there will always be the one who will say
Something bad to make them feel great
Everybody talks bad about somebody
And never realize how it affects somebody
And you bet it won’t be forgotten
Envy is the only thing it could be
People are all the same
And we only get judged by what we do
My personality reflects me
And if I’m ugly then
So are you
So are you
VAlentine’s Fever
February 14, 2006
Last Saturday i was about to sleep when i saw on tv a guy proposing to her ladlylove in front of thousand people to have that courage to stand and show there love for each other. The following day there are so many inspiring story on television sharing there love,finding two souls bound for happiness and love that will last forever. There are so many story that you will never imagined still exist up to now in this modern world, you will find corny to hear those, i myself even came up with a question what is the essence of valentines day for those people who are single of course they will not gonna received any valentines card,chocolates and bouquet of flowers,they are just being outcasted to the celebration and wishing that special someone will able to remember this vday,but in realization that is a just reflection on those people who wanted to show there love, but in the end pure heart still the greatest gift that they could ever received to someone who they truly love,,,but for single people like me that is just 1 day celebration let it be for those who are inlove
as jim brickman song Your heart
It’s not the flowers, wrapped in fancy paper
It’s not the ring, I wear around my finger
There’s nothing in all the world I need
When I have you here beside me, here beside me
So you could give me wings to fly
And catch me if I fall
Or pull the stars down from the sky
So I could wish on them all
But I couldn’t ask for more
Cause your love is the greatest gift of all
In your arms, I found a strength inside of me
And in your eyes, there’s a light to guide me
I would be lost without you
And all that my heart could ever want, has come true
You could offer me the sun, the moon,
And I would still believe
You gave me everything
When you gave your heart to me
love is in the air for fEBRUARY
February 11, 2006
THis Entry is all about love, it dOes’nt mean that i’m looking for someone, but i believe that all of us entitled to be inlove, be love by someone but we are not just talking love in terms of someone who will be our side but love for everyone, for our family, friends and even nature. Valentine’s Day it’s not just for lovers but for those people who know the meaning of love. As the poem goes
I thought that love meant being with someone I truly love;
I thought that love meant caring endlessly for the one special person in my life;
I thought that love meant being open and honest to the one that I love,
I thought that love meant making him the happiest person alive;
I thought that love meant making him special each day;
I thought that love meant dreaming of our lives together,
I thought that love meant making him realize how important he is in my life.
I thought that love meant pure happiness,
When in fact, it doesn’t.
Like life, love has its twists and turns,
Its ups and downs;
Its stops and its pauses;
Sometimes we can feel it right away,
In the magic that we call "love at first sight."
Sometimes, it needs to develop and blossom
Into something we call true love.
But now, as I sit here alone
I wonder if what I thought about love was true,
Or maybe I forgot something,And I think I did
song that will inspired us aLL the love is eVErywhere (I first heard this song to the movie mY bestFriend wedding) :
What the World Needs Now is Love
Jackie DeShannon
What the world needs now is love, sweet love
It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love,
No not just for some but for everyone.
Lord, we don’t need another mountain,
There are mountains and hillsides enough to climb
There are oceans and rivers enough to cross,
Enough to last till the end of time.
What the world needs now is love, sweet love
It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love,
No, not just for some but for everyone.
Lord, we don’t need another meadow
There are cornfields and wheat fields enough to grow
There are sunbeams and moonbeams enough to shine
Oh listen, lord, if you want to know.
What the world needs now is love, sweet love
It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love,
No, not just for some but for everyone.
No, not just for some, oh, but just for everyone.
things that make you feel good
February 10, 2006
Find Supportive Friends
Do One Thing For Yourself Everyday
cheer up other people who are sad
Do a good deed each day
Writing everything down
cry once in awhile
Pray and count your blessings
watch a good movie
read a good book
take away negative things
learn to break rules
Always greet w/smile
keep a journal
listen to good music
sing while bathing
talked to a friend
reminisce good old times
Have a Nice conversation w/someone
offer a Prayer
February 6, 2006On my way home last saturday i received a txt message from a friend as the txt msg goes "let’s pray for those who are victim of stampede tragedy that happen in Ultra". I was shocked to hear the news, because that friday night we are even discussing the cause of traffic in ultra due to people who are waiting outside until the gate open, because since monday there are a lot of people who are waiting. So when i got home i open the tv i saw on the news the people who died and injured due to the accident happen, it was so sad to see people crying,looking for there love ones. You don’t know those people but you really feel the sadness and dissapointment, then i just felt the tears in my cheeks flowing in my eyes it really hit me to see those people who stood on the line just to enter the venue to try there luck and aspirations to have good life. Then one thing i realize due to poverty in our country, these are the people who will try there chances to join any game show just to have something to feed their children and families. For those who are very lucky that don’t need to fall in line and sweat just to earned money, try to share what you have and always be thankful to god’s blessing. FOR THOSE family who lost there loved ones,,I say a little prayer.
It’s all Worth it…..
February 3, 2006As the song goes…."In the eyes of a child there is joy, there is laughter
There is hope, there is trust, a chance to shape the future
For the lessons of life there is no better teacher
Than the look in the eyes of a child"
It was last saturday jan28, when we organized our 1st outreach program we are not part of any NGo’s we just want to share a little blessing that we received last 2005 it was supposed to be a pre-christmas because instead of having christmas party, we just thought to do this kind of activity however due to lack of time and busy from worked we decided that it will be a post christmas, we never thought that this project will push through due to some problem that we encounter along the way like donations, location and as well people who will be part of our program, we kinda giving-up to organized this project and we are hoping that there will be kind-hearted people who will give us donations, then xmas was over for such limited time to announce it to some of our friends and officemate we are surprised to have donations far from what we are expected, like old clothes,toys and food as well prizes for 150 kids.
We are so overwhelm to the response that we got,then finally we succesfully done our outreach even though we are only few who orgnized this project it was very self fulfilling, It was very touching to see those kids have smile in there face and saying thank you before we went home they really made are day special…
wHAT I have learned in this experience is we tend to complain for some nonsense things and we sometimes overlook those small things that we have and forgot to appreciate other’s,i also realize that you don’t have to be a politician or philantrophist to be able to do charity work you just need a little effort and helping hand.
Farewell To The Old Me
February 2, 2006
I’ve asked myself most of the time what if i was a different person, am i able to do things the way i want it to,can i choose my friends or am i able to change the things that happen in the past, so that i will not feel the hurt and regrets In Life, but then i realize that we cannot change the fact that we are the one who make our own destiny, because it’s in all our hands where the road will lead too and it will only depend on us what will be our future.Yes once in awhile there is hardship, pain and sadness, sometimes we are tired of living in this complicated world but if we do not experience those things then we never learned to our own mistakes.I Guess that is the reason why changes is also part of growing.
this entry was inspired by this song: soundtrack of the hit reality tv series in mtv laguna beach
Farewell To The Old Me
How can I ask love to hold the mystery
When just look at me
It’s all push and pull collateral
I don’t want to be the one who gets the next surprise
I’ll plan it out this time
Though I used to think that things were meant to be
So farewell to the old me
Farewell to the old me
My life is working better now
It’s always changing anyhow
I danced a lot of nights until the grass was wet
It wasn’t over yet
‘Round ’bout 3 a.m. you made a friend
And I followed a lot of vital crazy thoughts
Because it’s where the meaning was
And I tried to find it every other way
So farewell to the old me
Farewell to the old me
My life is getting better now
But always changing anyhow
But I can turn on the charm
Show them nothing more
Than what I’ve done before
It’s nothing much new
But it’ll do
‘Cause I don’t wanna be the one who makes you laugh out loud
I wanna make you proud
And you always said you knew what I could be
So farewell to the old me
Farewell to the old me
Farewell to the old me
My life is working better now
But always changing anyhow
Time
And the old me
Farewell to the old me
Farewell…
KEeping A jOURNAL
January 26, 2006
"Nothing happens until you decide. … Make a decision and watch your life move forward"
I started to have my personal journal last year.,,.basically the reason i got that because it’s a christmas present given to me by one of my friend,,I PLAn to have one but it will be better if this will be a gift from someone you know it’s also a right time to have one because during that time i was on the stage of depression,emotionally and spritually,,, feeling Down and alone. I began to write my journey towards to a new beginning in my life,As well my craziest thought,,or anything that i feel to write,,it’s also one way for me to breath in this fast pace of life…I realize life will not always be a bed of roses there will be thorns ,thorns that give us strength to continue what we have not finish,,,,REalize that we should learn to stand and face the world ahead of us and to keep standing despite of every failure that we encounter in our lives,,,.,,,***EXCERPT FROM MY JOURNAL**jan0305…
Then now 2006 i only have 10pages left in my journal,,,So it means i need a new one,so anyone who is kind-hearted i hope your reading my blogged…i need a NEW JOURNAL(CHarity pls)
Thought about love and life…….
January 25, 2006
fOR THose who fall in love,,,fall out of love and beginning to find love…just a little thought to share
Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will find rewarding happinesss not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love within your being. To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let the bitterness rare you away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today. There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. You don’t have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don’t let your heartrun your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn’t mean you failed in love. Cry if you have to, but make it sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is though everything is a miracle.
bReaKaway….
January 24, 2006
i Want to breakaway…….this is the best thing to do if you want to see the real world far from what you are expected…..I love this song so much even though i’m not really a Kelly clarkson fan,,But i really love this song
Grew up in a small town Trying hard to reach out I’ll spread my wings Out of the darkness Want to feel the warm breeze Buildings with a hundred floors
And when the snow would fall down
I’d just stare out my window
Dreamin’ of what could be
And if I’d end up happy
I would pray
But when I tried to speak out
Felt like no one could hear me
Wanted to belong here
But something felt so wrong here
So I prayed I could break away
And I’ll learn how to fly
I’ll do what it takes
Till I touch the sky
And I’ll make a wish, take a chance, make a change
And break away
And into the sun
But I won’t forget all the ones that I love
I’ll take a risk, take a chance, make a change
And break away
Sleep under a palm tree
Feel the rush of the ocean
Get on board a fast train
Travel on a jet plane
Far away and break away
Swinging round revolving doors
Maybe I don’t know where they’ll take me but
Gotta keep movin’ on movin’ on
Fly away break away
Out of the darkness and into the sun
But I won’t forget the place I come from
I gotta take a risk, take a chance make a change
And break away
Breakaway
Best Thing in LIFE Are……
1.falling in love
2.laughing so hard until your face hurts
3.family
4.good conversation
5.sweet dreams
6.beach
7.getting butterflies in your stomach everytime that you see that person.
8.Hug the one you love
9.midnight phone call that last for hrs
10.waking-up realizing you still have few hours left to sleep
11.friends
12.watch the sunrise
13.laughing at yourself
14.having somone play w/ur hair
15.gettin mail
16.getting out of bed every morning and thank go for another beautiful day
song for the moment
January 20, 2006
I LOVE HER VIDEO AS WELL THE SONG ,luxurious, by,,,,GWEN STEFANI
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back
Trying so hard, saving up the paper
Now we get to lay back
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back, the pay back, the pay back
Champagne kisses, hold me in your lap of luxury
I only want to fly first-class desires, you’re my limousine
So elegant, the way we ride, our passion, it just multiplies
There’s platinum lightning in the sky
Look I’m livin’ like a queen
This kind of love is getting expensive
We know how to live, baby
We’re luxurious, like Egyptian cotton
We’re so rich in love, we’re rollin’ in cashmere
Got it in fifth gear, baby
Diamond in the rough is lookin’ so sparkly
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back
Trying so hard, saving up the paper
Now we get to lay back
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back, the pay back, the pay back
Sugar, honey, sexy baby
When we touch it turns to gold
Sensitive and delicate, kinda like a tuberose
You know you are my treasure chest
It’s pure perfection when we kiss and
You’re my Mr., I’m your Miss
Gonna be until we’re old
This kind of love is getting expensive
We know how to live, baby
We’re luxurious, like Egyptian cotton
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back
Trying so hard, saving up the paper
Now we get to lay back
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back, the pay back, the pay baCK
And we’re so rich in love, we’re rollin’ in cashmere
Got it in fifth gear, baby
Diamond in the rough is lookin’ so sparkly
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back
Trying so hard, saving up the paper
Now we get to lay back
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back, the pay back, the pay back
Single life
January 19, 2006
The past few months I have discovered that I am not as lonesome as I once was.I thought I just couldn’t be happy by myself and now I find that I am happier than I thought I could be, Almost to the point I am starting to wonder if I want to give of myself to someone else. In the past I have always let my heart lead me, being the hopeless romantic that I am, and following your heart and not your head can get you into trouble sometimes. So now finally, I am more so trying to use my head and not my heart.
I guess it adds pressure when all of your friends are becoming quite busy with their love life’s that you hardly hangout with them anymore. Aggravated towards the holiday season when every member of your family start asking, “when are you getting married or do you have a boyfriend at all?” Pointing out that you are not getting any younger. Then the valentines just add misery to it all.
Yeah, I know being single at times like this when most of your closest friends had already found their significant other is really tough… Difficult even! How would you defend yourself that you don’t need someone to make you happy, when they keep on insisting you lead a very lonely life? I used to feel that way, but after being alone, I’ve learned how to get used to it and eventually be happy about it. How I wish we could have all this knowledge that comes with age and living life’s experiences at the start instead of now. God must have a real big sense of humor!
I like being able to come and go when I please, go with friends at a moments notice or just hang around the house looking awful if I want. I don’t know when will be the right one come, I just don’t know that yet. I’m not closing my doors just yet. But I have finally discovered that being single isn’t quite so bad. I have discovered that I can entertain myself if need to, and also it doesn’t take someone else to make you happy. I have discovered that fullness of joy comes from within our hearts and by knowing that no matter what happens God will never leave you alone. I have a great feeling inside when I say this it is such a revelation to me. God has been good and He had set me free from all the struggles that I’ve been through after all these years. What I have found recently is such a treasure. I have always looked to someone else to make me happy, but now I’m looking up to God and peopel around me,I’ve never been so happier.
10 things to gIve this year…written by deborah brown
January 18, 2006
1. Your Time.
How many of you are too busy with your own lives to give your time to others? Being busy is an excuse and a reason not to go out of your way. People need you and love you. They want to see you. Let them in. ! Let them have time with you.
2. Your Support. 3. Your Acceptance. 4. Your Attention. 5.Your Forgiveness. 6. Your Patience. 7. Your Love. 8. Your Ideas. 9. Your Smile. 10. A Hug. Human touch warms the heart and keeps us connected. In addition, it doesn’t take much effort, it costs nothing, and it makes someone’s day. Couldn’t you find time in your schedule to hug someone you love today?
How many of you really support the people in your life? What I mean by support is encouragement and reasons to try something new, not 10 different reasons why it won’t work. There’s nothing better than telling a person that they can do whatever they want in this world.
This may be a toughie for some of you. This means unconditional love and the ability to love someone for who they are and not what you want them to be. It means giving up how you think their life should go, and accepting them for what they want to do with their lives. This is the greatest gift that you can give to the people in your life.
How many of you really listen to the people in your life? For everyone who just said "of course I do," then why are the people in your life asking you to repeat what they just said? It’s because they know that you didn’t hear them. Take a few minutes, stop what you are doing, and focus on the people who you love.
Forgiving people for past mistakes and hurts is one of the greatest gifts you can give them. After all they are only human. Plus, I’m sure that you haven’t been the perfect human being either. Keeping hurt and anger in your life is just an excuse not to get close to people for fear that they will hurt you again.
How many of you can’t even be with the people you love because they are taking too long to tell a story or are taking longer than "you think" to complete a project that you think should take less time to get done. How do you know that there isn’t a better way to do something if the people around you always have to do it your way? Having patience with people shows them that they are respected and loved.
People want to know that they are special in your life and that you care about them. If there are things that are keeping you from loving them such as conversations that you want to have with them, but you’re afra! id, my advice is to say it. Sometimes you have to take a risk to achieve an open and rewarding relationship. Take the risk and give your love.
Sometimes people want to move forward in their lives but they don’t know h! ow. You may know something that they never thought of. And who knows, your ideas may change somebody’s life. So go ahead, don’t be afraid to share what you know.
There is nothing better that entering a room and seeing ! someone smile when
you walk in. Right then and there you know that your presence makes a difference in their life. A smile is easy. You just grin upward. Plus, you burn many more calories than from frowning.
Greatest aDVICE
Don’t date because you are desperate.
Don’t marry because you are miserable.
Don’t associate with people you can’t trust.
Don’t dictate because you are smarter.
Don’t demand because you are stronger
Don’t sleep around because you think you are old
enough and know better.
Don’t hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don’t sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don’t live in the past. Time can’t bring anything or
anyone back.
Don’t put your life on hold for possibly Mr/Mrs
Right.
Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career. Sometimes, there is no race to be won.
Only a price to be paid for some of life’s more hasty
decisions.
To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the
homeless.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don’t bring another life into this world for all the
wrong reasons.
To make yourself happy, pursue your passions and be the best of what you can be.
Simplify your life. Take away the clutter. Get rid of
destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and dangerous
Don’t live life recklessly without thought and
feeling for your family.
Be true to yourself. Don’t commit when you are not
ready.
Don’t keep others waiting needlessly.
Take care of yourself. Don’t wait for someone to take
care of you.
You light up your life. You drive yourself to your destination. No
one completes you - except YOU.
art of Letting GO
January 14, 2006Letting go
To let go doesnt mean to stop caring; it means I To let go is not to cut myself off, its the realization To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means To let go is not to try to change or blame another, I To let go is not to care for, but to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive. To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be To let go is not to in the middle arranging all the To let go is not to deny but to accept. To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue, but to To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone but To let go is not to regret the past but to grow and To let go is to fear less and to love more than you have before
can do it for someone else.
that I cant control another.
from natural consequences.
the outcome is not in my hands.
can only change myself.
human being.
outcomes, but to allow others to be protective, it is
to permit another to face reality.
search out my own shortcomings and to correct
them.
but to take each day as it comes and to cherish
the moment.
to try to become what I dream I can be.
to live for the future.
the year that was,,,,,,
LEsson I’VE LEARned…………
2005 has ended,2006 has begun,not realizing that there are a lot things happen in my life…. i’ve been very busy of work i never realize how fast life can be,,,,how people change and people may come and go in your life,,,,but one thing that stuck in my mind is being contented for what i have,i often complain, but Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want,it is the realization of how much you already have It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that! we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way,The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past,you can’t go on well in life until you
let go of your past failures and heartaches.So as the day go by,i thank god for the blessing that i have and how wonderful life can be,,,,,,,,
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