MORAL ADVICE

NO POINTING FINGERS We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are
afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find
a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we
point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? There is a saying that a perfect match can only
be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the
husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf
at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement
of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

BE PATIENT
Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken
bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the
person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage
will haunt us forever.

NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower
another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer
all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage Actually, this is not
the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to
reshape a mountain or a river than a person’s character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse
character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is 
broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to  
suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and
enmity   may result in separation

Beautiful

you’ve  heard over the radio almost everyday, you’ve seen
several times his music video in MTV but i just love
listening to james blunt songs, especially this one 
pure of emotion.

My life is brilliant.
My love is pure.
I saw an angel.
Of that I’m sure.
She smiled at me on the subway.
She was with another man.
But I won’t lose no sleep on that,
‘Cause I’ve got a plan.

You’re beautiful. You’re beautiful.
You’re beautiful, it’s true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don’t know what to do,
‘Cause I’ll never be with you.

Yeah, she caught my eye,
As we walked on by.
She could see from my face that I was,
Flying high
And I don’t think that I’ll see her again,
But we shared a moment that will last till the end.

You’re beautiful. You’re beautiful.
You’re beautiful, it’s true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don’t know what to do,
‘Cause I’ll never be with you.

You’re beautiful. You’re beautiful.
You’re beautiful, it’s true.
There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
When she thought up that I should be with you.
But it’s time to face the truth,
I will never be with you