Best Thing in LIFE Are……

1.falling in love

2.laughing so hard until your face hurts

3.family

4.good conversation

5.sweet dreams

6.beach

7.getting butterflies in your stomach everytime that you see that person.

8.Hug the one you love

9.midnight phone call that  last for hrs

10.waking-up realizing you still have few hours left to sleep

11.friends

12.watch the sunrise

13.laughing  at yourself

14.having somone play w/ur hair

15.gettin mail

16.getting out of bed every morning and  thank go for another beautiful day

song for the moment

I LOVE HER VIDEO AS WELL THE SONG ,luxurious, by,,,,GWEN STEFANI

Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back
Trying so hard, saving up the paper
Now we get to lay back
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back, the pay back, the pay back

Champagne kisses, hold me in your lap of luxury
I only want to fly first-class desires, you’re my limousine
So elegant, the way we ride, our passion, it just multiplies
There’s platinum lightning in the sky
Look I’m livin’ like a queen

This kind of love is getting expensive
We know how to live, baby
We’re luxurious, like Egyptian cotton
We’re so rich in love, we’re rollin’ in cashmere
Got it in fifth gear, baby
Diamond in the rough is lookin’ so sparkly

Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back
Trying so hard, saving up the paper
Now we get to lay back
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back, the pay back, the pay back

Sugar, honey, sexy baby
When we touch it turns to gold
Sensitive and delicate, kinda like a tuberose
You know you are my treasure chest
It’s pure perfection when we kiss and
You’re my Mr., I’m your Miss
Gonna be until we’re old

This kind of love is getting expensive
We know how to live, baby
We’re luxurious, like Egyptian cotton

Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back
Trying so hard, saving up the paper
Now we get to lay back
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back, the pay back, the pay baCK

And we’re so rich in love, we’re rollin’ in cashmere
Got it in fifth gear, baby
Diamond in the rough is lookin’ so sparkly

Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back
Trying so hard, saving up the paper
Now we get to lay back
Working so hard, every night and day
And now we get the pay back, the pay back, the pay back

Single life

 The past few months I have discovered that I am not as lonesome as I once was.I thought I just couldn’t be happy by myself and now I find that I am happier than I thought I could be,  Almost to the point I am starting to wonder if I want to give of myself  to someone else. In the past I have always let my heart lead me, being the hopeless romantic that I am, and following your heart and not your head can get you into trouble sometimes. So now finally, I am more so trying to use my head and not my heart.

I guess it adds pressure when all of your friends are becoming quite busy with their love life’s that you hardly hangout with them anymore. Aggravated towards the holiday season when every member of your family start asking, “when are you getting married or do you have a boyfriend at all?” Pointing out that you are not getting any younger. Then the valentines just add misery to it all.

Yeah, I know being single at times like this when most of your closest friends had already found their significant other is really tough… Difficult even! How would you defend yourself that you don’t need someone to make you happy, when they keep on insisting you lead a very lonely life? I used to feel that way, but after being alone, I’ve learned how to get used to it and eventually be happy about it. How I wish we could have all this knowledge that comes with age and living life’s experiences at the start instead of now. God must have a real big sense of humor!
 
I like being able to come and go when I please, go with friends at a moments notice or just hang around the house looking awful if I want. I don’t know when will be the right one come, I just don’t know that yet. I’m not closing my doors just yet. But I have finally discovered that being single isn’t quite so bad. I have discovered that I can entertain myself if need to, and also it doesn’t take someone else to make you happy. I have discovered that fullness of joy comes from within our hearts and by knowing that no matter what happens God will never leave you alone. I have a great feeling inside when I say this it is such a revelation to me. God has been good and He had set me free from all the struggles that I’ve been through after all these years. What I have found recently is such a treasure. I have always looked to someone else to make me happy, but now I’m looking up to God and peopel around me,I’ve  never been so happier.

10 things to gIve this year…written by deborah brown

1. Your Time.
How many of you are too busy with your own lives to give your time to others? Being busy is an excuse and a reason not to go out of your way. People need you and love you. They want to see you. Let them in. ! Let them have time with you.

2. Your Support.
How many of you really support the people in your life? What I mean by support is encouragement and reasons to try something new, not 10 different reasons why it won’t work. There’s nothing better than telling a person that they can do whatever they want in this world.

Greatest aDVICE

Don’t date because you are desperate.
Don’t marry because you are miserable.
Don’t associate with people you can’t trust.
Don’t dictate because you are smarter.
Don’t demand because you are stronger

Don’t sleep around because you think you are old
 enough and know better.
Don’t hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don’t sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don’t live in the past. Time can’t bring anything or
anyone back.
Don’t put your life on hold for possibly Mr/Mrs
 Right.

Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career. Sometimes, there is no race to be won.
Only a price to be paid for some of life’s more hasty
decisions.

To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the
 homeless.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don’t bring another life into this world for all the
wrong reasons.
 
To make yourself happy, pursue your passions  and be the best of what you can be.
 Simplify your life. Take away the clutter. Get rid of
destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and dangerous

Don’t live life recklessly without thought and
 feeling for your family.
Be true to yourself. Don’t commit when you are not
 ready.
Don’t keep others waiting needlessly.

Take care of yourself. Don’t wait for someone to  take
 care of you.
You light up your life. You drive yourself to your destination. No
 one completes you -  except YOU. 
 

art of Letting GO

Letting go

To let go doesnt mean to stop caring; it means I
can do it for someone else.

the year that was,,,,,,

 LEsson I’VE LEARned…………

 2005 has ended,2006 has begun,not realizing that there are a lot things happen in my life…. i’ve been very busy of work i never realize how fast life can be,,,,how people change and people may come and go in your life,,,,but one thing that stuck in my mind is being contented for what i have,i often complain, but Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want,it is the realization of how much you already have It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that! we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way,The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past,you can’t go on well in life until you
let go of your past failures and heartaches.So as the day go by,i thank god for the blessing that i have and how wonderful life can be,,,,,,,,